When you search for a high profile Groom for your daughter, Remember, you have the required infrastructure and the girl has matching educational background over and above appearance to match with him otherwise, settle for a boy of your daughter's matching/like and let her to lead a peaceful married life. Similarly, if you hunt for a beautiful Bride for your Son, Remember, your son has outstanding qualifications followed by handsome exclusive income to meet his ever increasing expenses independently otherwise, settle for a girl of his ability to maintain and let him to lead a comfortable married life.
REMEMBER, after the marriage of your Son or Daughter, in our opinion, you are losing about 98% of your rights and responsibilities towards them. If you accept this reality and keep such distance and avoid interfering with their day-to-day affairs, your children will lead a peaceful and comfortable married life.
When you search for a working bride, you must Remember that she also goes to her working place like you and returns home completely exhausted and need rest, comforts like you and for this other than you, rest of your family should co-operate and treat her the way they treat you, otherwise, you may loose your much needed family life. When you search for a homemaker bride, Remember, she may have to do the most complicated regular household job without any break and have to look after your knotty child when he/she is added to your family beside to adjust with other members of your family. Therefore, we suggest, at least on Sundays or any other day of your choice in a week, she may be given a comfortable rest and outing with you to her place of interest and if so, this will help you to rejuvenate your married life. When you hunt for a beautiful wife also Remember, you have the required means to maintain her and family with your own income; otherwise, it is better to seek a girl matching to your financial capacity for a comfortable and peaceful married life.
Once married, you become the sole Defense and Protection to your wife irrespective of you belongs to any nuclear or joint family and has to leave behind certain memories of your parental home for the sake of building your own empire with your wife for a better future to both of you. But do not forget, it is also your exclusive responsibility to look after your aged parents and reciprocate the way they have brought you up from nowhere and placed you in a high pedestal of comforts.
Once married, you become an Ornament to the household of your husband irrespective of nuclear or joint family and may have to leave behind certain memories of your parental home for the sake of building your own empire with your husband for a better future to both of you. But do not forget, it is your exclusive responsibility to look after your aged parents and reciprocate the way; they have brought you up from nowhere and placed in a high pedestal of comforts.
To Grooms & Brides:-
Remember, a good Couple is made of one Soul but with two Bodies having Mutual Respect, Trust and Confidence in each other and stands together firmly on all crisis and happiness. Those Couples who have these qualities, no power on earth can break their relationship otherwise they themselves will break away and need no outside help to disintegrate them.
If we define “Divorce”, it is absolutely an EVIL born out of from Couple’s exclusive irresponsibility of being down with biased notions and egos and nobody is responsible for such disintegration of marriages. Remember: Married life is most important and happiest in one's lifespan and to make it happier, please stick to hold Mutual Respect, High Trust and Brimming Confidence in each other to make your married life even happier.
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